Things on My Mind

Friends with No Couch

1. In modern living, it seems we can’t maintain a long-term relationship with a couch. You might have had one when the style and space were perfect, but then life happened. Moving into a bachelor pad? No room for the couch. Ugly design that doesn’t fit anymore? It’s out. Maybe an ex-girlfriend couldn’t stand the sight of it, so goodbye, couch. It’s like the furniture version of a fleeting romance.

On Taking Fewer Pictures

2. I only take pictures when I truly feel inspired—a moment where I absolutely want to capture the memory. Since I already don’t pull out my phone much, I suspect my 2025 photo album might turn into a rather sad little book. Minimal documentation, maximum feelings?

   

   First selfie of 2025 taken in a public bathroom. I've started to hate myself for only being capable of taking outfit pictures and nothing else. Do I lack the eyes to see the beauty in the world?

Opera Lenses and the Balcony Life

3. I’ve been spending a lot of time staring out the window of my room. Honestly, there’s nothing particularly fascinating out there—just the usual traffic comings and goings. Then, I bought opera glasses, and they’ve fulfilled all my high-society ballroom fantasies. Balcony people-watching is my new favorite pastime, although I’ve already grown bored of who’s popping in and out of the convenience store around the corner.

   

Decluttering and Self-Transformation

4. I’ve been getting rid of stuff from home—furniture, clothes, and even untouched gifts since summer 2024. Every day, I look at my wardrobe and ask, "What can I let go of today?"

   Everyone has those items they keep for a hypothetical occasion that never comes. If I haven’t used or worn it in 1-2 years, it’s time to let it go. My new rule is simple: if I wouldn’t bother taking it with me when I move, it’s time to donate it to someone who can use it better.

   This process is both depressing and refreshing. It’s taught me how much money I’ve wasted and the value of investing in good, solid pieces. Decluttering offers a second chance to redefine myself. Who do I want to be next?

Rediscovering Public Life

5. I finally dragged myself into public after almost a month of staying home, except for work. I checked what was on at TIFF and saw a free screening of the film La femme de l’hôtel. I struggled with the decision until 5:14 p.m. but eventually got up, cleaned up, and drove to the theater. I’m glad I did. I’d forgotten how immersive the cinematheque is. It wasn’t so much about the film’s impact but about the ability to get lost in the dark room. The best part is I picked seats with no one around me.

On my way out, I overheard a couple walking behind me say, “I don’t believe in screwed-up people.” It’s been echoing in my mind ever since.

Tech Frustrations

6. I’ve been putting off updating my iPhone to iOS 18 because the new photo album design is killing me. Who is the engineer behind this? Do they hate the modern information era? I get wanting to innovate, but why mess with the album? Find something else to vent your creativity on, please!

Recommitting to French Learning

7. I really need to keep up with my French learning. Without a course to chase my ass, I’ve completely dropped it. Shame on my self-control. New rule: when I wake up in the morning, the first app I check will be Duolingo.

What have you been doing? Talk soon :)